Betwixt Rocks and Hard Places

When I posted last week that my book, Dear Will: The True Story of a Mother Who Never Gave Up, had been withdrawn by its publisher, my friend Kate Wooten asked this question on Facebook:  “Can you self-publish it to Kindle so I can read it?”

Unfortunately, the answer is no.  I’m caught between more than one rock and more than one hard place.

You can decide which are the rocks and which are the hard places but here are the players:

  • Libel
  • Invasion of Privacy
  • Public Figures
  • Private Individuals

Here’s the expert version of the issue:

imageTwo lawyers explain the problem here.

And here’s the executive summary including the key part left out of  Jassin and Schechter’s book title:

  • If I publish that you have 101 speeding tickets and you don’t, that’s libel.  If you see me, I will lose.
  • If I publish that you have 101 speeding tickets and you do and you’re a private individual, that’s invasion of privacy.  If you sue me, I will lose.
  • If I publish that you have 101 speeding tickets and you do but you’re a public figure, I will probably win the lawsuit you might file but I’ll have spent a fortune defending myself.

Major publishers carry insurance against the risk of libel and invasion of privacy lawsuits.  Small and medium-size publishers typically do not, and the coverage is, for all intents and purposes, impossible for an individual author to obtain.

And while telling the truth is a great defense against a charge of label, it’s an admission of guilt against a charge of invasion of privacy!

For my book, the libel part was easy.  My book doesn’t contain false statements.  In fact, most everything in the book is a matter of public record in the form of court records of the legal proceedings. However, that’s still not to say that someone mentioned in the book can’t sue me for libel and drag me into court to defend myself, which canquite easily and very quicklycost tens of thousands of dollars.

As to invasion of privacy, what constitutes a public figure?  Is an officer of the court a public figure by virtue of their position?  Again, it could cost tens of thousands of dollars to argue that point.  Ditto for expert witnesses.  And, mining tonight’s Oscar nominees for analogy fodder, unless you’re Daniel Day-Lewis’s best friend or Anne Hathaway’s little sister, your friends and family members are probably private individuals.

So how are the tell-all’s we see on every bestseller list possible?  Well, they’re either published by major publishers who have excellent insurance coverage or they’re published by people with nothing to lose.  If I didn’t have two cents to rub together, I’d put out an e-book version of Dear Will in a heartbeat.  As it stands, I’m not prepared to risk my children’s inheritance in order to publish the book.

Before you take up the banner of the First Amendment in my defense, remember that you’re “free” to yell, “FIRE” in a crowded theater but at the very least one will almost certainly be charged with disturbing the peace for doing so.  In other words, you’re “free” to say or publish anything you’d like but it can cost you to do so.

In faith, hope & love,

Debo

Commitment Day

Having had all ten of my toes curled on the edge of the precipice of publication of Dear Will: The True Story of a Mother Who Never Gave Up, two pages in the publisher’s spring catalog, available for pre-order on Barnes & Noble’s website, and ready to talk tour with the publicist, legal concerns brought the entire project to a screeching halt just before Christmas.

So, I’ve been perched on that precipice ever since.  Do I inch back down or do I jump into another writing project?  Telling you I’ve decided to jump makes it official (and much harder to back down!).  It may never see print (there are about a billion things that can go wrong) but I will do my best to shine a light on the life and times of Adelicia Hayes Franklin Acklen Cheatham, a fascinating woman who made her fictional contemporary Scarlett O’Hara look like a weak-willed wallflower.

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A young Adelicia Hayes about the time of her engagement to Alphonso Gibbs.

Much more to come!

In faith, hope & love,

Debo

What I’ll Be Overhearing This Weekend

In between handing out packets and scoring at River Glen Summer HT this weekend, I will overhear one or more of these comments every time I set foot outside the show office to post scores.  Handy translation guide included.

Image courtesy of Garyn Heidemann

In faith, hope & love,

Debo

Just Don’t Tie Your Horse to the Wash Rack While You Do It

As I head to the River Glen Equestrian Center for this weekend’s horse trials, I know I’ll be seeing lots of this over the next several days.

Image courtesy of Craig T. Roberts, DVM, Inc.  NOTE:  Eventers are usually in baseball caps & ponytails at the wash racks, their belt buckles tend to be smaller, and their spurs don’t have rowels (the discs with teeth that look like cutting wheels).

In faith, hope & love,

Debo

Catching Up

So…what was I doing during the 5-week series on writing?

I’ll tell if YOU will.

  • Continued to research bariatric surgery.  I still have a seminar to attend so I’ll hold off pontificating on the subject until I’ve gathered as much information as possible.
  • Bought four new tires.  (Hey, it’s not all fun and games.)
  • Because losing 10% of one’s highest body weight of the current year is a prerequisite for my insurance to cover bariatric surgery, started Weight Watchers with my daughter Esme on August 1st.  And have lost 11.6 lbs., thank you very much.

“I’ll have what she’s having!”  I Got This by Jennifer Hudson

  • Secretaried and scored a sold-out horse trials at River Glen Equestrian Center in New Market, Tennessee with my CPA & Excel buddy, Julie Burns.  Knowing I had that job on my plate was my initial reason for setting up the 5-week series.  There is a LOT of very time-consuming detail work that goes into preparing for these events in addition to the four days away from home, glued to a series of spreadsheets.
  • Listened when Debra Taylor, the RIGHT kind of girlfriend, told me in the nicest possible way that I needed some serious styling and introduced me to former Miss USA runner-up and image consultant extraordinaire, Sharon Harper.  Miz Sharon told me the argument against coloring my hair was over and I lost.  That will be taken care of tomorrow.  And, ladies and gentlemen, let me tell you, I my wardrobe has now been styled.  And it didn’t empty Sir Shining’s bank account either.  (Ok, sometimes it is fun and games.)
  • Received an update over lunch from an author I’m mentoring, a rare one who has actually followed through and completed his first draft!  And inspired his wife to do the same!
  • Tracked down a teacher who had a tremendous influence on me and told her thank-you.
  • Went to a $5.50 movie and then dinner with Sir Shining.  His pick: The Bourne Legacy.
  • FINALLY finished going through over half a century’s worth of photographs, getting them in chronological order, and taking them to Wolf Camera to have them digitized for the ridiculously low price of $60 per 450 photos.  (The second reason I set up the 5-week writing series.  I wanted my dining room table back.)
  • Was profoundly grateful that an air-conditioning part it will take a week to get broke AFTER the temps had fallen into the 80’s rather than WHILE they were in the 100’s.
  • Took advantage of the 5-week hiatus from producing new blogging material to let a miracle-working, board-certified plastic surgeonremove my extra chin.
  • Took to heart the admonition of the aforementioned Julie Burns that all blog posts must take at least 5 minutes to read and the admonition of the aforementioned Debra Taylor that all blog posts must last as long as it takes her to sip a cup of tea. 

Drink up, Debra.

In faith, hope & love,

Debo