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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>In all things, you cannot reasonably expect to receive more than you choose to give.  Live like you want a lot back.           

— Deborah Katherine Lovett</description><title>Faith, Hope &amp; Love(tt)</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @deborahkatherinelovett)</generator><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/</link><item><title>Betwixt Rocks and Hard Places</title><description>&lt;p&gt;When I posted last week that my book, &lt;a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dear-will-deborah-lovett/1111959202?ean=9781426742545" title="Dear Will:  The True Story of a Mother Who Never Gave Up" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dear Will: The True Story of a Mother Who Never Gave Up&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, had been withdrawn by its publisher, my friend Kate Wooten asked this question on Facebook:  &amp;#8220;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can you self-publish it to Kindle so I can read it?&amp;#8221;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Unfortunately, the answer is no.  &lt;strong&gt;I&amp;#8217;m caught between more than one rock and more than one hard place.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You can decide which are the rocks and which are the hard places but here are the players:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Libel&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Invasion of Privacy&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Public Figures&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Private Individuals&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Here&amp;#8217;s the &lt;strong&gt;expert&lt;/strong&gt; version of the issue:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/0eb891d8825a7fc1048dd892858fb553/tumblr_inline_miqqx2YiAo1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;Two lawyers explain the problem &lt;a href="&amp;lt;iframe%20src=%22http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=faholott-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=as1&amp;amp;asins=0471146544&amp;amp;ref=tf_til&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr%22%20style=%22width:120px;height:240px;%22%20scrolling=%22no%22%20marginwidth=%220%22%20marginheight=%220%22%20frameborder=%220%22&amp;gt;&amp;lt;/iframe&amp;gt;" title="The Copyright Permission and Libel Handbook" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And here&amp;#8217;s the &lt;strong&gt;executive summary&lt;/strong&gt; including the key part left out of  Jassin and Schechter&amp;#8217;s book title:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I publish that you have 101 speeding tickets and you don&amp;#8217;t, that&amp;#8217;s &lt;strong&gt;libel&lt;/strong&gt;.  If you see me, I will lose.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I publish that you have 101 speeding tickets and you do and you&amp;#8217;re a private individual, that&amp;#8217;s &lt;strong&gt;invasion of privacy&lt;/strong&gt;.  If you sue me, I will lose.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I publish that you have 101 speeding tickets and you do but you&amp;#8217;re a &lt;strong&gt;public figure&lt;/strong&gt;, I will probably win the lawsuit you might file but I&amp;#8217;ll have spent a fortune defending myself.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Major publishers carry insurance against the risk of libel and invasion of privacy lawsuits.  Small and medium-size publishers typically do not, and the coverage is, for all intents and purposes, &lt;strong&gt;impossible&lt;/strong&gt; for an individual author to obtain.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And while telling the truth is a great defense against a charge of label, it&amp;#8217;s an admission of guilt against a charge of invasion of privacy!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For my book, the libel part was easy.  My book doesn&amp;#8217;t contain false statements.  In fact, most everything in the book is a matter of public record in the form of court records of the legal proceedings. &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;However&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;, that&amp;#8217;s still not to say that someone mentioned in the book can&amp;#8217;t sue me for libel and drag me into court to defend myself, which can&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;—&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;em&gt;quite easily and very quickly&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;—&lt;/span&gt;cost &lt;strong&gt;tens of thousands of dollars&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As to invasion of privacy, what constitutes a public figure?  Is an officer of the court a public figure by virtue of their position?  Again, it could cost &lt;strong&gt;tens of thousands of dollars&lt;/strong&gt; to argue that point.  Ditto for expert witnesses.  And, mining tonight&amp;#8217;s Oscar nominees for analogy fodder, unless you&amp;#8217;re Daniel Day-Lewis&amp;#8217;s best friend or Anne Hathaway&amp;#8217;s little sister, your friends and family members are probably private individuals.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;So how are the tell-all&amp;#8217;s we see on every bestseller list possible?&lt;/strong&gt;  Well, they&amp;#8217;re either published by major publishers who have excellent insurance coverage or they&amp;#8217;re published by people with nothing to lose.  If I didn&amp;#8217;t have two cents to rub together, I&amp;#8217;d put out an e-book version of &lt;em&gt;Dear Will&lt;/em&gt; in a heartbeat.  As it stands, I&amp;#8217;m not prepared to risk my children&amp;#8217;s inheritance in order to publish the book.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span class="UFICommentBody"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Before you take up the banner of the First Amendment in my defense, remember that you&amp;#8217;re &amp;#8220;free&amp;#8221; to yell, &amp;#8220;FIRE&amp;#8221; in a crowded theater but at the very least one will almost certainly be charged with disturbing the peace for doing so.  In other words, you&amp;#8217;re &amp;#8220;free&amp;#8221; to say or publish anything you&amp;#8217;d like but it can cost you to do so.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/43921789399</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/43921789399</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 15:00:00 -0600</pubDate><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>Commitment Day</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Having had all ten of my toes curled on the edge of the precipice of publication of &lt;em&gt;Dear Will: The True Story of a Mother Who Never Gave Up&lt;/em&gt;, two pages in the publisher’s spring catalog, a&lt;a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dear-will-deborah-lovett/1111959202?ean=9781426742545" title="Dear Will page at bn.com" target="_blank"&gt;vailable for pre-order on Barnes &amp;amp; Noble’s website&lt;/a&gt;, and ready to talk tour with the publicist, legal concerns brought the entire project to a screeching halt just before Christmas.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;So, I’ve been perched on that precipice ever since.  Do I inch back down or do I jump into another writing project?  Telling you I’ve decided to jump makes it official (and much harder to back down!).  It may never see print (there are about a billion things that can go wrong) but I will do my best to shine a light on the life and times of &lt;a href="http://tennesseeencyclopedia.net/entry.php?rec=1" title="Adelicia's bio in Tennessee Encyclopedia" target="_blank"&gt;Adelicia Hayes Franklin Acklen Cheatham&lt;/a&gt;, a fascinating woman who made her fictional contemporary Scarlett O’Hara look like a weak-willed wallflower.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/3f3802f4d51e55a4c8f1a747847ba786/tumblr_inline_midh9acvhE1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;A young Adelicia Hayes about the time of her engagement to Alphonso Gibbs. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Much more to come!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/43317090687</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/43317090687</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2013 10:18:00 -0600</pubDate><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>Happy Valentine's Day!</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="732" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m85pgpyw1rq7mqe.jpg" width="558"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/43075852852</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/43075852852</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 08:01:06 -0600</pubDate><category>Deborah Katherine Lovett</category><category>Faith Hope and Lovett</category><category>Valentine's Day</category><category>humor</category><category>love</category><category>relationships</category><category>romance</category><category>faith hope and love</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>Happy Groundhog Day!</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="744" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m7e2b2ls1rq7mqe.jpg" width="564"/&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/Hahahalaughitout" title="Laugh It Out on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Laugh It Out&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/42098847174</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/42098847174</guid><pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 08:01:05 -0600</pubDate><category>Deborah Katherine Lovett</category><category>Faith Hope and Lovett</category><category>Groundhog Day</category><category>humor</category><category>faith hope and love</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>The Best Christmas Ad...EVER</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Best Buy, take note.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m7qnRp4H1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;Click &lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2082108/John-Lewis-Christmas-sales-Over-500m-brought-greatest-ad-ever.html" title="John Lewis ad video from Daily Mail UK" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; to read the article in the &lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/index.html" title="Daily Mail UK" target="_blank"&gt;Daily Mail&lt;/a&gt; about the ad and its happy effect on sales, then SCROLL DOWN to watch the most heartwarming video you&amp;#8217;ll see this Christmas.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/36351952342</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/36351952342</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 08:01:04 -0600</pubDate><category>Christmas</category><category>Christmas giving</category><category>Christmas present</category><category>Deborah Katherine Lovett</category><category>Faith Hope and Lovett</category><category>family</category><category>love</category><category>relationships</category><category>faith hope and love</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>Why We All Do This</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Whether you&amp;#8217;re an organizer, official (okay, maybe this is not true of &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;all&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; of the dressage judges), volunteer, rider, owner, coach or trainer, this is why we do it.  Bagpipes at sunrise and then&amp;#8230;this.&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m6ualbmu1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="http://equestrianproblemss.tumblr.com/" title="Equestrian Problems Tumblr Blog" target="_blank"&gt;Equestrian Problems&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35984950722</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35984950722</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2012 08:00:45 -0600</pubDate><category>dressage</category><category>eventing</category><category>horses</category><category>humor</category><category>volunteering</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>What a Horse Wants</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Today is dressage and stadium at &lt;a href="http://www.river-glen.com/" title="River Glen Equestrian Center" target="_blank"&gt;River Glen Summer HT&lt;/a&gt;.  This is what it looks like.&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="366" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m57zKxr21rq7mqe.jpg" width="517"/&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Craig-T-Roberts-DVM-Inc/117038769996" title="Craig T. Roberts, DVM, Inc. on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Craig T. Roberts, DVM, Inc.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35908219413</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35908219413</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2012 08:00:41 -0600</pubDate><category>Deborah Katherine Lovett</category><category>Faith Hope and Lovett</category><category>River Glen Equestrian Center</category><category>eventing</category><category>faith hope and love</category><category>humor</category><category>volunteering</category><category>horses</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>What I'll Be Overhearing This Weekend</title><description>&lt;p&gt;In between handing out packets and scoring at &lt;a href="http://www.river-glen.com/" title="River Glen Equestrian Center" target="_blank"&gt;River Glen Summer HT&lt;/a&gt; this weekend, I will overhear one or more of these comments every time I set foot outside the show office to post scores.  Handy translation guide included.&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m735w8Ty1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/garyn.heidemann" title="Garyn Heidemann on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Garyn Heidemann&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35840004723</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35840004723</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 08:00:47 -0600</pubDate><category>Deborah Katherine Lovett</category><category>Faith Hope and Lovett</category><category>River Glen Equestrian Center</category><category>eventing</category><category>faith hope and love</category><category>humor</category><category>volunteering</category><category>horses</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>Just Don't Tie Your Horse to the Wash Rack While You Do It</title><description>&lt;p&gt;As I head to the &lt;a href="http://www.river-glen.com/" title="River Glen Equestrian Center" target="_blank"&gt;River Glen Equestrian Center&lt;/a&gt; for this weekend&amp;#8217;s &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eventing" title="description of horse trials" target="_blank"&gt;horse trials&lt;/a&gt;, I know I&amp;#8217;ll be seeing lots of this over the next several days.&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m520C1Qg1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Craig-T-Roberts-DVM-Inc/117038769996" title="Craig T. Roberts, DVM, Inc. on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Craig T. Roberts, DVM, Inc.&lt;/a&gt;  NOTE:  Eventers are usually in baseball caps &amp;amp; ponytails at the wash racks, their belt buckles tend to be smaller, and their spurs don&amp;#8217;t have rowels (the discs with teeth that look like cutting wheels).&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#13;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35773170463</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/35773170463</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 08:01:03 -0600</pubDate><category>Deborah Katherine Lovett</category><category>Faith Hope and Lovett</category><category>River Glen Equestrian Center</category><category>eventing</category><category>faith hope and love</category><category>humor</category><category>volunteering</category><category>horses</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>Catching Up</title><description>&lt;p&gt;So&amp;#8230;what was I doing during the 5-week series on writing?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&amp;#8217;ll tell if &lt;strong&gt;YOU&lt;/strong&gt; will.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Continued to research &lt;strong&gt;bariatric surgery&lt;/strong&gt;.  I still have a seminar to attend so I&amp;#8217;ll hold off pontificating on the subject until I&amp;#8217;ve gathered as much information as possible.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Bought four new tires.  (Hey, it&amp;#8217;s not &lt;strong&gt;all&lt;/strong&gt; fun and games.)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Because losing 10% of one&amp;#8217;s highest body weight of the current year is a prerequisite for my insurance to cover bariatric surgery, started &lt;a href="https://www.weightwatchers.com/" title="Weight Watchers" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Weight Watchers&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; with my daughter Esme on August 1st.  And have lost &lt;strong&gt;11.6 lbs.&lt;/strong&gt;, thank you very much.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94ho3kOMv1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;I&amp;#8217;ll have what &lt;strong&gt;she&amp;#8217;s&lt;/strong&gt; having!&amp;#8221;  &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0525952772?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0525952772&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="I Got This by Jennifer Hudson" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I Got This&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href="http://www.jenniferhudson.com/us/home" title="Jennifer Hudson" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jennifer Hudson&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Secretaried&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.river-glen.com/pdf/rgsuht12results.pdf" title="River Glen Summer HT - FINAL SCORES" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;scored&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; a sold-out &lt;strong&gt;horse trials&lt;/strong&gt; at &lt;a href="http://www.river-glen.com/" title="River Glen Equestrian Center" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;River Glen Equestrian Center&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt;in New Market, Tennessee with my CPA &amp;amp; Excel buddy, &lt;a href="http://julieburnscpa.com/" title="Julie Burns CPA" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Julie Burns&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.  Knowing I had that job on my plate was my initial reason for setting up the 5-week series.  There is a LOT of very time-consuming detail work that goes into preparing for these events in addition to the four days away from home, glued to a series of spreadsheets.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Listened when &lt;strong&gt;Debra Taylor&lt;/strong&gt;, the &lt;strong&gt;RIGHT&lt;/strong&gt; kind of girlfriend, told me in the nicest possible way that I needed some serious styling and introduced me to former Miss USA runner-up and image consultant extraordinaire, &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/sharon.s.harper.5" title="Sharon Harper" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Sharon Harper&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.  Miz Sharon told me the argument against &lt;strong&gt;coloring my hair&lt;/strong&gt; was over and I &lt;strong&gt;lost&lt;/strong&gt;.  That will be taken care of tomorrow.  And, ladies and gentlemen, let me tell you, I my wardrobe has now been &lt;strong&gt;styled&lt;/strong&gt;.  And it didn&amp;#8217;t empty &lt;strong&gt;Sir Shining&amp;#8217;s&lt;/strong&gt; bank account either.  (Ok, sometimes it &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;is&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; fun and games.)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Received an update over lunch from an author I&amp;#8217;m &lt;strong&gt;mentoring&lt;/strong&gt;, a rare one who has actually followed through and &lt;strong&gt;completed&lt;/strong&gt; his first draft!  And inspired his wife to do the same!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Tracked down a &lt;strong&gt;teacher&lt;/strong&gt; who had a &lt;strong&gt;tremendous&lt;/strong&gt; influence on me and told her &lt;strong&gt;thank-you&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Went to a&lt;strong&gt; $5.50&lt;/strong&gt; movie and then dinner with &lt;strong&gt;Sir Shining&lt;/strong&gt;.  His pick: &lt;a href="http://www.thebournelegacy.com/#/home" title="The Bourne Legacy" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Bourne Legacy&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;FINALLY&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; finished going through over half a century&amp;#8217;s worth of &lt;strong&gt;photographs&lt;/strong&gt;, getting them in chronological order, and taking them to &lt;a href="http://www.wolfcamera.com/" title="Wolf Camera" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Wolf Camera&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to have them digitized for the ridiculously low price of $60 per 450 photos.  (The second reason I set up the 5-week writing series.  I wanted my dining room table back.)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Was &lt;strong&gt;profoundly&lt;/strong&gt; grateful that an air-conditioning part it will take &lt;strong&gt;a week to get&lt;/strong&gt; broke AFTER the temps had fallen into the 80&amp;#8217;s rather than WHILE they were in the 100&amp;#8217;s.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Took advantage of the 5-week hiatus from producing new blogging material to let&lt;strong&gt; a &lt;/strong&gt;miracle-working, board-certified plastic surgeonremove my extra chin.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Took to heart the admonition of the aforementioned &lt;strong&gt;Julie Burns&lt;/strong&gt; that all blog posts must take at least 5 minutes to read and the admonition of the aforementioned &lt;strong&gt;Debra Taylor&lt;/strong&gt; that all blog posts must last as long as it takes her to sip a cup of tea. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Drink up, Debra.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29963042611</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29963042611</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Aug 2012 07:43:00 -0500</pubDate><category>Weight Watchers</category><category>beauty</category><category>family</category><category>fashion</category><category>friends</category><category>health</category><category>plastic surgery</category><category>volunteering</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>Watch Where You Step</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Beware of&lt;strong&gt; thin ice &lt;/strong&gt;and&lt;strong&gt; dog poo&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Every time I think I&amp;#8217;ve missed the timing boat for the review of a book that came out in February 2012 and a movie that &amp;#8220;premiered&amp;#8221; in October 2011, more tales of wildly privileged people behaving badly revivify their relevance.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;First, the &lt;strong&gt;ice&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m92f6g86h31rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0670023272?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0670023272&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="The Darlings by Cristina Alger" target="_blank"&gt;The Darlings: A Novel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; by &lt;a href="http://cristinaalger.com/about-cristina-alger" title="Cristina Alger" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cristina Alger&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (Pamela Dorman Books, 2012)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0670023272?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0670023272&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="The Darlings by Cristina Alger" target="_blank"&gt;The Darlings: A Novel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;, her fiction debut, &lt;a href="http://cristinaalger.com/about-cristina-alger" title="Cristina Alger" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cristina Alger&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, a Harvard-trained former financial analyst and former lawyer, gives us a roman à clef with a little bit of &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madoff_investment_scandal" title="Madoff investment scandal" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Madoff&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, a little bit of (son of the South) &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fairfield_Greenwich_Group" title="Walter Noel/Fairfield Greenwich Group" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Walter Noel&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, a dash of &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Maxwell" title="Sir Robert Maxwell" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Sir Robert Maxwell&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, and a nod to &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000HF2Q6E?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B000HF2Q6E&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Bonfire of the Vanities" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Bonfire of the Vanities&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (when nice cars go to bad neighborhoods).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Darlings&amp;#8217; picture-perfect world is revealed to be just that: a shiny image reflected by a slick surface. It&amp;#8217;s voyeurism at its best to watch the cracks form and widen until the ice shatters, and they all get a series of nasty shocks.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And on a &lt;strong&gt;technical&lt;/strong&gt; side note, Alger did a &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;masterful&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; job with point of view, telling each section of the story from the perspective of a different main character.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And now for the &lt;strong&gt;poo&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you prefer movies to books, here&amp;#8217;s one of the best Oscar-nominated films (Best Original Screenplay) that never appeared in a theater near you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m92f8bt2dF1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005FITIGO?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B005FITIGO&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Margin Call" target="_blank"&gt;Margin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005FITIGO?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B005FITIGO&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Margin Call" target="_blank"&gt; Call&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;on DVD&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kevin Spacey&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;Demi Moore&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;Paul Bettany&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;Jeremy Irons&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;Zachary Quinto&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;Stanley Tucci&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;Simon Baker&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;Mary McDonnell&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;strong&gt;Penn Badgley&lt;/strong&gt;.  In one movie.  After seeing the trailer for &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005FITIGO?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B005FITIGO&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Margin Call" target="_blank"&gt;Margin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005FITIGO?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B005FITIGO&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Margin Call" target="_blank"&gt; Call&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;, I could hardly &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;wait&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; for its October 21, 2011 release date.  But then, nothing.  It was never in any theater that I could find, and I set the search parameters for 100 miles.  I finally gave up waiting and watched it via Amazon Instant Video.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;According to the movie&amp;#8217;s plot, the 2007 collapse of the housing market started with a &lt;strong&gt;sincere&lt;/strong&gt; effort to minimize volatility in the related financial market.  The disaster was triggered by an unfortunate &lt;strong&gt;math error&lt;/strong&gt;.  The &lt;strong&gt;response&lt;/strong&gt; to the disaster was, of course, a &lt;strong&gt;moral failing&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;PALATE CLEANSER:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You&amp;#8217;ll need one.  Go perform at least one act of hands-on charity to get the the stench out of your hair and clothes and get your head back in the right place after your emerge from &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0670023272?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0670023272&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="The Darlings by Cristina Alger" target="_blank"&gt;The Darlings: A Novel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; and &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005FITIGO?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B005FITIGO&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Margin Call" target="_blank"&gt;Margin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005FITIGO?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B005FITIGO&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Margin Call" target="_blank"&gt; Call&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29837372919</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29837372919</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 12:46:00 -0500</pubDate><category>books</category><category>ethics</category><category>movies</category><category>recommendations</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 24: May Your Book Signing Lines Be Long</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;But know that most of your success will be up to you.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8o0tyJ5Eg1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a&gt;Kids O.T. (UK)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Once you sign a publishing contract, &lt;strong&gt;do everything&lt;/strong&gt; you learned in your &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/27831614498/a-short-course-on-writing-step-5-reading-list" title="A Short Course on Writing - Step 5" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Step 5&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/28051231119/a-short-course-on-writing-step-8-back-to-the" title="A Short Course on Writing - Step 8" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Step 8&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29548880661/a-short-course-on-writing-step-23-turn-up-the-volume" title="A Short Course on Writing - Step 23" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Step 23&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; reading plus everything your agent and publisher tell you to do to make your book as successful as it can possibly be and &lt;strong&gt;keep doing it&lt;/strong&gt; until the book stops selling.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;All while continuing your repetition of the process for your &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;next&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; book.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;See you at a bookstore!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29618704776</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29618704776</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 07:53:00 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><category>publishing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 23: Turn Up the Volume</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;But no need to shout, just grab a microphone.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8nxvhltRq1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/159555503X?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=159555503X&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Platform by Michael Hyatt" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World: A Step-by-Step Guide for Anyone with Something to Say or Sell&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href="http://michaelhyatt.com/about" title="Michael Hyatt" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Michael Hyatt&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you didn&amp;#8217;t just leave the Oval Office or own your own television network or land a crippled plane on the Hudson River in midtown Manhattan with no loss of life, be doing anything you can to build your platform.  &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/159555503X?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=159555503X&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Platform by Michael Hyatt" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World: A Step-by-Step Guide for Anyone with Something to Say or Sell&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by&lt;a href="http://michaelhyatt.com/about" title="Michael Hyatt" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Michael Hyatt&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can show you how.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In the meantime, keep working through your &lt;strong&gt;repetition&lt;/strong&gt; of Steps 7-19 for your &lt;strong&gt;next&lt;/strong&gt; book while your agent does his or her (statistically, it will probably be her) job for your &lt;strong&gt;current&lt;/strong&gt; book. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you receive an offer, &lt;strong&gt;listen&lt;/strong&gt; to your agent’s advice.  As nice as it is to have someone—&lt;strong&gt;anyone&lt;/strong&gt;—want your book, it might not be the &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;right&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; offer.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you receive what you and your agent believe is the right offer, it&amp;#8217;s time to talk to that &lt;strong&gt;specialized attorney&lt;/strong&gt; again.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29548880661</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29548880661</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2012 07:51:01 -0500</pubDate><category>publishing</category><category>writing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 22: Shakespeare Was Wrong</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;About at least one thing.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8lz07vMCq1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;Detail of the &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cobbe_portrait" title="The Cobbe Portrait" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cobbe Portrait&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (1610) of &lt;strong&gt;William Shakespeare&lt;/strong&gt; courtesy of Wikipedia Commons&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://shakespeare.mit.edu/2henryvi/full.html" title="Henry VI, Part 2" target="_blank"&gt;Henry VI, Part 2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;, Shakespeare has Dick the Butcher suggest that to set up a perfect society, &amp;#8220;The first thing we do, let&amp;#8217;s kill all the lawyers.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bad idea.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Once you choose an &lt;strong&gt;agent&lt;/strong&gt; (and, hopefully, you will &lt;span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;choose&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt; an agent v. signing with the first person willing to talk to you), have a &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;specialized&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; lawyer review the agency contract before you sign it.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Intellectual property&lt;/strong&gt; in general and the &lt;strong&gt;publishing industry&lt;/strong&gt; specifically are their own weird universes.  This is most emphatically &lt;span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;NOT&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the time to put your creative and financial future in the hands of your brother-in-law the personal injury trial lawyer or your college roommate who closes residential real estate transactions.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You will want this &lt;strong&gt;legal eagle&lt;/strong&gt; on speed dial when you have a &lt;strong&gt;publishing contract&lt;/strong&gt; in hand and again if your manuscript needs to be &lt;strong&gt;vetted&lt;/strong&gt; for libel or invasion of privacy issues.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&amp;#8216;Twere me, I wouldst contacteth &lt;a href="http://www.kaufmanpublaw.com/" title="Alan J. Kaufman" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Alan J. Kaufman&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29477933092</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29477933092</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2012 07:45:43 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><category>publishing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 21: Déjà Vu</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;You as a Writer 2.0.  And counting.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8lx8slrNd1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbara_Cartland" title="Dame Barbara Cartland" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dame Barbara Cartland&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, author of 722 novels, published at the rate of &lt;strong&gt;one every 40&amp;#160;&lt;em&gt;days&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; during her active years—Photo by Allan Warren courtesy of Wikipedia Commons&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You won&amp;#8217;t be querying &lt;strong&gt;24/7&lt;/strong&gt;.  So go back to &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/27978938158/a-short-course-on-writing-step-7-close-the-door" title="A Short Course on Writing - Step 7: Close the Door" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Step 7&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and start on your &lt;strong&gt;next&lt;/strong&gt; book.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29405910462</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29405910462</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2012 07:37:00 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 20: Knock, Knock</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Congratulations, you are now a virtual door-to-door salesman.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8lyydKGOU1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="http://idahofallschief.blogspot.com/2011/08/city-council-may-tighten-door-to-door.html" title="From the Chief's Desk blog" target="_blank"&gt;Idaho Falls Police Chief Steve Roos&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It goes without saying that you&amp;#8217;ve done your &lt;strong&gt;homework&lt;/strong&gt;, right?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;There are no agents on your list whose profiles say they don&amp;#8217;t represent &lt;strong&gt;books like yours&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;There are no agents on your list whose profiles say they don&amp;#8217;t accept &lt;strong&gt;unsolicited queries&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;There are no agents on your list whose profiles say they aren&amp;#8217;t taking on &lt;strong&gt;new clients&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;You aren&amp;#8217;t contemplating &lt;strong&gt;emailing&lt;/strong&gt; someone who wants &lt;strong&gt;snail mail&lt;/strong&gt; or vice versa.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ok, good.  Now, starting at the &lt;strong&gt;bottom&lt;/strong&gt; of your list of agents, start querying.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You can send out &lt;strong&gt;more than one&lt;/strong&gt; query at a time (as long as you don&amp;#8217;t mislead a prospective agent into thinking she has an exclusive) but don&amp;#8217;t query all the agents on your list at once.  Remember, you don&amp;#8217;t know what you&amp;#8217;re doing at first.  Make your mistakes in front of a handful of people, not in front of every literary agent in North America!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Track your progress with a &lt;strong&gt;spreadsheet&lt;/strong&gt;:  when you sent the query, when (actually, &lt;strong&gt;if&lt;/strong&gt;) you received a response, and any &lt;strong&gt;feedback&lt;/strong&gt;.  Any feedback at all.  Even the &lt;strong&gt;painful stuff&lt;/strong&gt; is helpful.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;If a prospective agent tells you he doesn&amp;#8217;t handle your &lt;strong&gt;type&lt;/strong&gt; of project, either you &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;didn&amp;#8217;t&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; do your homework before you sent the query or the agent&amp;#8217;s tastes have changed.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;If the agent now says she has a &lt;strong&gt;full&lt;/strong&gt; client list, that&amp;#8217;s not a reflection on you.  Heck, you can almost count that as positive!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;If the agent says &lt;strong&gt;your work needs work&lt;/strong&gt;, well, that&amp;#8217;s good to know.  You can do something about that.  Either yourself or hire someone to help.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let&amp;#8217;s say you land a &lt;strong&gt;live one&lt;/strong&gt;.  An agent asks to see your &lt;strong&gt;proposal&lt;/strong&gt;.  Great!  Send it &lt;strong&gt;BUT&lt;/strong&gt; keep querying. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Asking to see your proposal is &lt;strong&gt;NOT&lt;/strong&gt; asking to represent you.  And you may still be swimming in the &lt;strong&gt;depths&lt;/strong&gt; of your list of agents, querying people you&amp;#8217;ve never heard of who represent books you&amp;#8217;ve never heard of.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So continue to send out new queries.  And maybe move past your &lt;strong&gt;&amp;#8220;safeties&amp;#8221;&lt;/strong&gt; and start querying some of the &lt;strong&gt;&amp;#8220;reach&amp;#8221;&lt;/strong&gt; agents on your list.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29334088710</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29334088710</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2012 07:57:00 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><category>publishing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 19: Advanced Alchemy</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Draft an irresistible query. &lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8d7fiZjjK1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="http://blog.boisechoices.com/no-time-for-spring-cleaning-let-choices-help/messy-desk" title="Boise Choices blog" target="_blank"&gt;Boise Choices&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is what an agent&amp;#8217;s life looks like.  You have to &lt;strong&gt;cut&lt;/strong&gt; through it like a lightning bolt.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;So revisit &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1582975663?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1582975663&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Writer's Digest Guide to Query Letters by Wendy Burt-Thomas" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Writer’s Digest Guide to Query Letters&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by Wendy Burt-Thomas&lt;span&gt;, then craft an agent-seducing desk cleaner of an email.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29125447883</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29125447883</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2012 09:51:00 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><category>publishing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 18: Alchemy 101</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Draft an irresistible proposal. &lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8d6s5lcwm1rq7mqe.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Many how-to books talk about writing the query first.  I wrote the &lt;strong&gt;proposal first&lt;/strong&gt; for two reasons: &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;It’s much &lt;strong&gt;easier&lt;/strong&gt; to distill a manuscript down to 30 to 50 pages than down to one page. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;And I found that &lt;strong&gt;the proposal wrote the query&lt;/strong&gt; for me. In the distillation process, the essence bubbles up and begs to be given the starring role in the query.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;So revisit &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/158297702X?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=158297702X&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="How to Write a Book Proposal by Michael Larsen" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to Write a Book Proposal&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href="http://www.larsenpomada.com/michael-larsen/" title="Michael Larsen" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Michael Larsen&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then weave your own agent-attracting spell.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29050245298</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/29050245298</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2012 07:37:11 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><category>publishing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 17: Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me a Match</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It&amp;#8217;s almost time to go a-courtin&amp;#8217;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Unless you want the &lt;strong&gt;success&lt;/strong&gt; of your book to be all on &lt;strong&gt;you&lt;/strong&gt;—up to and including cover design and interior layout, picking paper stock, contracting production, handling shipping and receiving (just how big is your garage?), promotion (have the &lt;em&gt;New York Times&lt;/em&gt; book reviewer on speed dial, do you?), publicity, distribution (who do you know at Amazon, bn.com, Ingram, over a thousand independent booksellers, Costco, and Sam’s Club plus outside-the-box retail possibilities?), sales tax collection and remittance, &lt;em&gt;ad&lt;/em&gt; &lt;strong&gt;truly&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt; infinitum&lt;/em&gt;—research agents.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="700" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8d5ojIBL91rq7mqe.jpg" width="500"/&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1599632292?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1599632292&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Guide to Literary Agents" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;em&gt;The 2012 Guide to Literary Agents&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; edited by &lt;a href="http://www.chucksambuchino.com/" title="Chuck Sambuchino" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Chuck Sambuchino &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Look in the &lt;strong&gt;acknowledgements&lt;/strong&gt; section of &lt;strong&gt;books like yours&lt;/strong&gt;, comb the entries in the most recent &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1599632292?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1599632292&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;tag=faholott-20" title="Guide to Literary Agents" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Guide to Literary Agents&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; (edited by &lt;a href="http://www.chucksambuchino.com/" title="Chuck Sambuchino" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Chuck Sambuchino&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;) for agents who represent the type of book you’ve written, and make a list of possibilities.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Consider making a &lt;strong&gt;tiered&lt;/strong&gt; list.  Odds are good that you&amp;#8217;ll look like an &lt;strong&gt;idiot&lt;/strong&gt; the first time you query an agent so don&amp;#8217;t choose a superstar to be the recipient of your first effort.  You want to hold your try-outs &lt;strong&gt;way&lt;/strong&gt; off-Broadway. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So put the agents of &lt;strong&gt;bestsellers&lt;/strong&gt; at the top of your list, and the agents who say they&amp;#8217;re interested in books like yours but have a client list of books and authors &lt;strong&gt;you&amp;#8217;ve never heard of&lt;/strong&gt; at the bottom of your list.  In the middle, add some agents who have repped authors and books like yours that you recognize &lt;strong&gt;only&lt;/strong&gt; because you&amp;#8217;re a devoted fan of the genre, even if those titles didn&amp;#8217;t climb any charts.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Yes&lt;/strong&gt;, this is just like building a college list:  dream schools, reaches, and safeties.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/28978478840</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/28978478840</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2012 07:58:00 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><category>publishing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item><item><title>A Short Course on Writing - Step 16: NOT AGAIN?!</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Yes, again. &lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="350" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m83xcpZiVz1rq7mqe.jpg" width="500"/&gt;&lt;em&gt;Image courtesy of &lt;a href="http://www.ssqq.com/romance/matchmaker05.htm" title="SSQQ" target="_blank"&gt;SSQQ&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Read your manuscript one more time.  If it’s a) the &lt;strong&gt;best work you can do&lt;/strong&gt; and b) so &lt;strong&gt;compelling from first word to last&lt;/strong&gt; that a bookstore customer will be unable to resist it, proceed to Step 17. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But know that at least one thing your mother probably told you is &lt;strong&gt;absolutely true&lt;/strong&gt;:  You only have &lt;strong&gt;one chance&lt;/strong&gt; to make a good first impression.  Not only on the bookstore &lt;strong&gt;customer&lt;/strong&gt; but also on the &lt;strong&gt;agent&lt;/strong&gt; and the &lt;strong&gt;editor&lt;/strong&gt; you probably have to go through to even have a shot at the bookstore customer. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If your manuscript isn’t the best work you can do, revise it again.  If it’s still not so compelling from word one that a bookstore customer will be unable to resist it, know that agents, editors and bookstore customers &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;will&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; resist it. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you are in a position to do so, consider hiring &lt;strong&gt;expert help&lt;/strong&gt;.  Personally, I did not have a productive experience when I tried to do this as locally and as inexpensively as possible.  If that’s all you can afford, then by all means give it a shot.  But &lt;strong&gt;here’s what worked for me&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I went through this process myself, I bought how-to books &lt;strong&gt;by the pound&lt;/strong&gt;.  The books you see in this syllabus are only the ones I found most applicable, coherent, and useful. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I did not fail to notice that &lt;a href="http://www.larsenpomada.com/michael-larsen/" title="Michael Larsen" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Michael Larsen&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;’s name is on three of them.  In “considering the source,” I researched &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.larsenpomada.com/michael-larsen/" title="Michael Larsen" target="_blank"&gt;Michael Larsen&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;.  I learned that he worked in promotion for three major New York publishing houses before he and his wife moved to San Francisco in 1970 and founded &lt;a href="http://www.larsenpomada.com/" title="Larsen-Pomada Literary Agency" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Michael Larsen/Elizabeth Pomada Literary Agents&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, Northern California’s oldest literary agency, in 1972. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I found out he has written or co-written a number of bestselling books and that he writes the most beautiful book dedications (to his wife) that I have ever read.  (&lt;strong&gt;Sigh&lt;/strong&gt;.) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And while combing the agency’s &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.larsenpomada.com/" title="Larsen-Pomada Literary Agency" target="_blank"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;, I discovered that Michael Larsen holds call-in office hours during which he gives quick answers to questions on the spot for &lt;strong&gt;free&lt;/strong&gt; if he can and offers to schedule $100 thirty minute coaching sessions if a more in-depth answer is needed or desired. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So I called in one day and asked how I should go about finding a &lt;strong&gt;good freelance editor&lt;/strong&gt;.  He suggested writing groups or craiglist.  I pointed out that I’d asked how to find a &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;good&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; freelance editor.  He started to describe the all-over-the-map price range for editorial services.  I politely said that price was not the point and asked once again how to find a &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;good&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; freelance editor.  And then he said, “Oh, in &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;that&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; case, Google &lt;a href="http://www.bookdocs.com/" title="Independent Editors Group" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Independent Editors Group&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; in New York.” &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;I did and I was &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;very&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; pleased.  You can go straight to IEG&amp;#8217;s &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.bookdocs.com/" title="Independent Editors Group" target="_blank"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; and click on the profiles of the various editors available.  Look for someone with &lt;strong&gt;experience and interest&lt;/strong&gt; in &lt;strong&gt;your&lt;/strong&gt; type of book.  Contact one or more of them to ascertain fees, schedule availability, and whether or not the candidate “feels like” someone you could work with.  It won’t be &lt;strong&gt;cheap&lt;/strong&gt; but it will be &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;good&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &lt;a href="http://faithhopeandlovett.com/" title="Faith, Hope &amp;amp; Love(tt)" target="_blank"&gt;faith, hope &amp;amp; love&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/debokathlovett" title="Deborah Katherine Lovett Author on Facebook" target="_blank"&gt;Debo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/28906112059</link><guid>http://faithhopeandlovett.com/post/28906112059</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2012 07:55:00 -0500</pubDate><category>writing</category><dc:creator>debokathlovett</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>
